My love would bring up people that he doesn't get a good feel about.. At first i thought its cute his a little jealous 'awww' but later i thought about it and came to see why..
Here is the thing if I'm in a relationship then if I'm hanging out with the other opposite sex more often then feelings would come up and then confusion and then cheating. Sure cheating is one of the top trends and the saying that "He's probably cheating so why shouldn't you?" well whether he is or isn't i don't want to be the same.
It came to me that; if we see the other sex as thorns and your love as a Lilly then you would see the threat that is to come and you would draw your lines. they would be like loose ends you either tie the loose ends or cut them off; or view he thorns as cracks on the wall which you either fill up or break the wall and rebuild it..
Sometimes is just hard to draw the lines but its necessary. remember when they say that there is no "ME" in a relationship but "WE" well the truth is that relationships are about the two of you not just you so in many cases you have to do things lie cutting off loose ends.It would not be such a loss because you have your Lilly. i personally prefer to remain with my Lilly rather than the thorns...
For me I decided that i will make by man my Lilly among the thorns and not see all the others like lilies and just take each day as it is. if i get screwed over at least i have tried if i don't then it would all be worth the fight. I love him like crazy but no matter how many times i tell him he will not believe me and this is for sure because actions speak louder than words don't just say it PROVE it..
Think about it LILLY AMONG THORNS... You don want to get pricked and bleed, stay away from thorns. Why not avoid a problem when you see it rather than going crazy trying to fix it??
"Like a Lilly among the thorns so is my darling among the maidens"
XOXO
